When he’s picking fights with you over insignificant occurrences, something’s wrong. He has something going on with him that will impact your relationship and he is avoiding the issue. Never let a man rush you into a relationship and definitely never let them rush you to the altar. There’s a reason good things come to those who wait. Time is essential and necessary when it comes to sharing your body and your life with another person. While they may present you with a fantastic package for your future and might even promise you the world, stop and really listen to him; if you don’t, when the ish hits the fan you’re going to look back over the relationship and realize all the warning signs were there you just failed to recognize them. This man is a bottom feeder. He will crawl out from under his rock and cleverly disguise the information in conversation. And while you may have caught it - because you trusted his spoken words and not his subliminal Indian smoke screen, you were not able to realize the significance behind his slippery remarks. When a man ignores the woman carrying his child whether he wanted the child or not he is not the man for you. If he begins a relationship with you, he should inform you of everything in his life that may impact yours so that you can make an informed decision regarding the direction of your future. By hiding that information from you he is taking away your power to determine the outcome of your life. The child isn’t going away so eventually if you are going to be in a relationship with this man, you will have to have dealings with the child but that decision should be yours and yours alone. Any man who would string you along knowing full well he has a child on the way is selfish. Every man is measured by his behavior and his words. Pay Attention - If he fails to recognize his own child, if he fails to recognize the woman carrying his child, if he fails to inform you of that child – he will fail you too.
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