If you are a woman with multiple sexual partners and display them publicly society will judge you as amoral. Women who exhibit poor morals and loose sexual behavior are labeled as sluts, whores, skeez, skank… you get the picture. If you’re searching for your ultimate mate and in your search you choose to give up the goodies to every man you date that’s your business. If you like having lots of sex with many men that too is your business. The key word is your business. You have to know as a woman, publicizing your sexual trysts especially on a social network is scandalous. Discretion protects your privacy and maintains a perception of self respect even though your actions are questionable. Approaching every encounter with an announcement to the world “he’s the one” shows a lack of maturity, poor judgment and a deficiency of impulse control. And while your friends are co-signing every blow by blow detail you share with the internet, rest assured they are ALL talking behind your back about your skanky behavior. Pay Attention - When you screw 10 different men in 12 months not to mention the backsliding sex with ones you’ve split with, you’re nasty. Friends are funny, you may not remember every encounter you have but your friends will and even though you may have lost count – you’re friends have not. If you don’t believe this watch what happens when you stop being friends with one of them. In anger they will recite every escapade you’ve ever had right down to what color underwear you wore. We all have the right to live our lives as we see fit. Some of us are more experimental and adventuresome than others. When living La Vida Loca remember - you may have children one day. Imagine how hurt you will feel when your child comes home crying because their new best friend can’t play with them. Why? Because their mommy says you’re a slut. We lead by example.
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