Thursday, December 9, 2010

The Passing Of A Lady

When I heard the news about Elizabeth Edwards I was saddened and filled with sorrow.  I’m always saddened when I hear about someone passing away whether I know them or not.  I usually say a silent prayer asking that they be received with open arms. But with Elizabeth I also felt sorrow and I couldn’t understand why. Then I started thinking, prior to about a year ago I couldn’t have cared less about her. I wasn’t impressed with her and I definitely was unimpressed with her husband.  But then that nasty little scandal became public fodder.  I remember when I first heard about him cheating and thought, what a pig to put her on blast like that.  She was married to him for a long time, was the mother of his children, was going through a troubling medical condition and he can’t keep it in his pants. I felt for her.  Then the news came out about the baby, wow, she must be devastated.  All of a sudden I cared about her. We were kindred spirits in the world of women and I felt bad about her public humiliation. Her situation touched me even though I have never been placed in that predicament. I just thought….he should have been more discreet. I never became a groupie or anything like that.  I didn’t follow her life or read her book.  I did see her on Oprah and as she told her story – I felt sorrowful.  Which brings me back to her passing, I now understand my sorrow.  She was a woman who dedicated a lot of her life to a man, was treated unkindly and in spite of the unfair treatment – she remained a lady. I truly will miss her.

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