Is your mate a bully? Do they batter you with words knowing they are hurting you and pushing your buttons yet continue until you are ready to explode? Do they hide their bullying under the guise of “it was a joke” even though they knew exactly what they were doing and enjoyed doing it? Most of us are taught that if we ignore bullies eventually they will stop - but they don’t. They usually continue until they get a response and no matter what response you give, they will always find fault with it and make it appear as if something is wrong with you when it’s really their own insecurity. It’s not unusual in an abusive environment for one person to single out another for abuse just as it is not unusual to engage others to participate in that abuse. Psychologically you feel imprisoned but you don’t have to remain that way. You can be freed.
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